There are prerequisites under which this method works. But a surprisingly large number of people have success with exactly this method when the question is: What is the fastest way to get your ex back.

Of course, there are no guarantees for these things. It is clear to you that we are dealing with emotions and the psyche and that we do not know the circumstances under which the breakup took place. Therefore, although there is no guarantee, this method covers many ex-partners and breakups.
Also, my clients have succeeded with this method, so I hope you will too.

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Prerequisites For This Method To Work:

1. The best is if the breakup is relatively recent—anything within two months.

This method can work even after that, but its effectiveness will diminish. Think of it like a detergent diluted with more water—it becomes less potent. Time has this effect on things—it dilutes them.

Unfortunately, if your ex hasn’t returned within the first two months, it indicates a few not-so-good things:

• They are not interested enough in you.

• They are extremely stubborn and uncooperative, dear friends. Even if this kind of person, your ex, responds to this method, you will have an extremely stubborn and uncooperative person beside you. Do you really need that in your life?

• They are capable of punishing another person so much that they would willingly punish themselves too; this is even worse. Imagine living with someone capable of punishing others so harshly. In my country (the Balkans), there are jokes about such people. When such a man catches a golden fish and offers to grant him a wish, he says: “Let my neighbor’s cow and my cow die.” Why yours, too? The fish asks. So that he can’t come to me for milk, I will punish myself so he doesn’t benefit.

• They might be narcissists; they are capable of torturing others just because they know it hurts the other person immensely.

• They have moved on with their life.

• They might have a phlegmatic personality; such people not only react slowly, but they also make decisions slowly, take action slowly, reconcile slowly, and do everything slowly…

📌 Note: This method can be dangerous for some relationships. If your partner is very vain, jealous, uncooperative, etc., this may be a bad method for you. Now, most people think that their partners are all these things to the extreme. And usually, they are not. However, if all this is done culturally and can be explained if the partner (on return, not before) demands an explanation, you can try them. But keep this in mind.

Partners are beings with their emotions and are more likely not to go against themselves than to do so. However, it’s professional to note that this method won’t work for some relationships, and it could be entirely fatal for a small number of relationships. Which brings us to the next necessary instance to get your partner back:

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2. You need courage

This method requires you to be determined and brave and to grit your teeth in a way: Okay, maybe my partner is in that smaller percentage of people for whom this will be a deal breaker. But I’m brave, and I have to try my chances, not miss them.

You can also be brave and try this method, even if it’s been over two months, despite potentially embarrassing yourself a little.

Because with this, you have at least some chance (if you do nothing at all, you probably won’t increase your chances). And even if you embarrass yourself a little, which can only happen if that person doesn’t want you anymore, that person won’t be a part of your life in that case. So you don’t really care that you embarrassed yourself a little.

Regarding point one (that this will be a deal breaker), I have to say: we won’t do anything disgusting or immoral.

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So, if what you do turns out to be an absolute deal-breaker for your ex, I don’t recommend dealing with that ex-partner anymore. This would mean that your ex simply doesn’t take anything into account; they merely interpret your actions in their way and don’t soften things (at least not for you).

Such a person is likely very stubborn, rigid, narcissistic, and maybe even a sadist. Perhaps they enjoy blaming someone in a way: you are to blame for us not being together. Here is the proof! Uncooperative—that is, not listening to the other side. Cruel – I’m not sure you should be with such a person.

Regarding point two (if it’s been over two months) and you are afraid of embarrassing yourself, I won’t push you into it, but my general life recommendation is not to live life from a position of fear (Oh! What will happen if I embarrass myself?!) but from a position of desire (I want to get my ex back. And if this is the only or last way to do it, I will try it too.

I believe one should always follow one’s desires, not one’s fears.

Since we are talking about an ex-partner, I will assume you are no longer in contact and you want to get them back. Therefore, it is necessary for him or her to be informed about your life, which is best achieved through social media these days.

But if you are in contact, we will make a small modification to the whole process.

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4. You need a bit of immortality.

It’s only for those who won’t actually do the recommended things but are maybe a bit lazy, so they would rather fake them. What I will recommend isn’t anything terrible, but you will need to switch to the mindset: I will do anything to get my ex back.

5. Nothing you do should be addressed to your partner directly.

This is meant not to address them but for them to see it. Therefore, no sad songs, direct messages, threats, public heartbreak, etc.

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Procedure:

I emphasize that here we are dealing with quickly getting your partner back, so as strange/immoral/scary as these things may seem to you, this is a quick method. No one would ever recommend solving a medical problem without anesthesia, but sometimes a quick intervention is needed, so some people have to do it too. I took a drastic example, but I think you understand. These methods are drastic but usually effective because they target the partner in the right place.

Another critical note is that you should start doing most of these things only after three weeks of breaking up. Not earlier. Otherwise, it won’t be convincing, and you will appear wild and not as suitable for a serious relationship.

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Your Social Media Needs to Become… Hollywood

Why do I say Hollywood? Because it doesn’t have to be real, but it has to be very, very embellished (if it’s real, even better). This is obviously the first place where some of you will be shocked, and that’s why I said: You will need a bit less morality for this.

In a way that the things you present on your social media don’t have to be completely true.

So – stick to the golden mean on social media. The golden mean is:

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1. Post on social media about doing sports.

Now, do you see why I said some of you might fake it… and why it’s better to do it? Because if/when your partner returns, they will expect to see you still working out, and you’ll have transformed physically.

Why should you present yourself as someone who exercises? It sends the message to your ex that you are taking care of yourself. Besides, gyms are full of men and women who might also find you attractive.

We all love fit, toned bodies. If you own one, you become unusually attractive. This is an ancient psychological principle: people who are physically well and healthy will survive and protect their families and won’t be a burden to their partners.

So post on social media:

• You are in poses where you look good in sports clothes.
• Just your sports gear, with some captions underneath: (Workout begins! What a workout! etc.).
• The running track.
• Your sporting intentions (a caption like: People, my half-marathon training starts today! 😊).
• Your sporting achievements.

• This is the only thing you can start doing after ten days.

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2. Post on social media about having fun.

Remember. Everyone craves positive emotions, including your ex. If you are someone who can provide them with positive emotions, they will be interested in returning to you.

If they see that you are a cheerful, fun, and interesting person, as opposed to what you were after the breakup (sad, dramatic…) they might be interested in returning). Most people generally go to others to get positivity. Be someone who doesn’t take but gives.

So post:

• Photos with friends.
• Photos of fun activities.
• Pictures of exciting or adventurous activities.

Again, these don’t have to be yours, but if they aren’t, make sure they are attainable. For example, you can always go paintballing, but claiming you went zip-lining in Rio de Janeiro suddenly is maybe unrealistic to you.

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3. Post on social media about going out.

And if you can, try to be sexy in those photos.

This is important because it sends a message to your ex that you have moved on with your life. You are no longer sitting at home heartbroken, watching sad movies; you have pulled yourself together after the breakup.

Also, your ex will quickly realize that going out involves drinking, which lowers inhibitions + there are other interested people there + you have gotten through the most challenging period and can move on.

Therefore, post on social media:

• You dressed up for a night out.
• Selfies before going out. These selfies don’t have to be genuine. Dress up for a night out, take a selfie, take everything off, and go back to eating popcorn.
• A photo of some object related to going out: heels, drink glasses.
• Clips from clubs.

None of this has to be yours (except the selfies, of course 😁), but it still needs to be explainable.

• There is often nothing more attractive and scary for a person than when his ex-partner becomes sexy. It just means that he or she has moved on, that they met someone, that they going to meet someone (oh no!), and… look at them! They are so handsome and good-looking.

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4. Post your success stories.

Your life suddenly needs to become the epitome of success. Professional success or educational success. The idea is to progress in every aspect of your life.

So post on social media:

• Quotes about success/plans.
• Any background with some triumphant statements: What a fantastic day! (for example) What a victory! I couldn’t wait for this day!
• Your real successes (passed exams, closed deals, promotions, etc.).
• Realistically, the background could be a picture of a swan or a lake, but the post must exude success.

5. Post something smart

They can be your thoughts, but they can also be someone else’s. Besides being attractive, it’s also perfect if you’re smart.

It’s ideal if you’re everything that is generally considered good.

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6. Post a new person who can be your ex’s competition.

Yes, I knew you wouldn’t like this, and that every cell in your body would rebel (oh no! What if my ex gets even angrier because of this! And because of this, they never come back). Yes, we said that’s possible, and this is what will require the most courage.

But if you do this carefully and in a way that you can always justify that post/action, then there shouldn’t be a problem. Except with those partners we mentioned who might latch onto this, but for whom we said it might be better if you don’t stay with them. But read this segment to the end.

What we are trying to achieve is obviously a sense of urgency in your partner. A new person has appeared in the photos, and if the partner doesn’t react in time, this new person may take you away.

Conditions for this:

• That person must be either: 1. utterly unknown to your ex, 2. known but from afar, 3. known but your ex knows they are interested in you.

• Don’t hug, kiss, or act sexy next to that person: to lean on them sexy, etc. (Unless you know it will attract your ex). You will certainly have to explain this to your partner one day, so it’s suitable for the explanation to be: that’s just an acquaintance or a friend.

• Try to be in the photo, and maybe stay right next to that person.

• You could have a friend take this photo while you talk to that person. If your ex follows them, they can also post it on their social media.

• If you don’t want to post the whole person, post just a part of them (as if the photo were cropped). An arm, shoulder, part of a dress, etc., will be enough.

• If you don’t want to do even that, you can post a photo of something that symbolizes another person, such as car keys on the table, a cigarette you don’t smoke or with lipstick marks, or two glasses of drink.

• I believe that some of you will also like this text: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast By Text Message

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If you are in contact with your ex, you can do all these things—in real life.

• Do it so it seems spontaneous.

• With a certain modesty.

• Have a friend do it for you. Talk about you.

• Make it seem like it’s happening by chance in front of them. For example, they meet you in sports gear. Or all dressed up for a night out.

• Talk about it as if it doesn’t concern them, but since they’re asking, you’ll tell them.

• Ask them for advice about it (only if you’re in contact! Don’t ask for advice from an ex you’ve lost contact with. They’ll know what you’re doing… that you’re just seeking their attention).

Seeing these things (both on social media and in person), your ex might think that your life looks great now, that you’ve moved on, and that there are other interested candidates for you.

Because of this, they might quickly get in touch to check on what you’re doing.

Therefore, the continuation on how to act if your ex contacts you is:
How to get your ex back – 11 detailed steps. The text refers to a safer and slower way to get exes back, but the process itself (after these steps above) is the same.

And finally, what not to do if you want to get your partner back:

• Do not address them directly on social media.
• Do not post sad songs, quotes, or messages.
• Do not write nasty things that cause unpleasant emotions in anyone.
• Do not behave like you have already overcome that person and moved on with someone else.
• Do not flatter your ex.

I hope you found this text helpful. Dee